In class yesterday, we were given an assignment to write our own Eulogy which really caught me off guard, but at the same time got me thinking. As I was brainstorming I started to come up with a number of things that I would like people to say at my funeral, but the problem was I wasn't sure that they would be said if my time was to come sooner rather than later. After looking over what I read, I realized writing my own Eulogy gave me insight to what needed to change in my life right now.
For example, I wrote that I would want to have a career that my loved ones could be proud to speak of. The truth is, I don't have that at this point in time which inspired me to continue to be completely devoted to school and make sure that I become someone who will, without a doubt, serve as a role model for all of those around me (Jayden included).
What seemed to be just an assignment turned into one of the most inspirational things I have ever done. It lead me to set goals for myself that I wouldn't have originally thought of and it drove me to make more of my life now because truth be told, we never know when our time will be up, and I don't want to leave this world with regrets or doubts. I want to be entirely confident in knowing my family will have nothing but good things to say about me along with knowing I have left my mark; whether it changes only my family or the entire world, I don't want to miss out on making a difference.
To anyone who reads this, I really encourage you to write your Eulogy and see what you get out of it. It would be interesting for me to hear your thoughts/feelings as well!
Lots of Love,
Desirae <3